Or, her role as a mom has left you feeling neglected. It really is often a thankless and very boring job. As women, we do lots of lowly things, too: washing underwear, cleaning toilets, wiping noses. Growing tired of your partner or spouse could have its roots in a damaged ... Or she reminds you of something unpleasant about your mother. I’m not exaggerating. Love is a crazy state of being. For those with kids still living at home, parenthood is a round-the-clock responsibility—and studies still show that moms still put in more time than dads, on average. You have to be in a mother sorority to make it and to have fun and support. I'm tired of my emotional and physical needs not being met. When He washed the disciples’ feet, He showed He would do lowly things, but that didn’t mean He was worthless. There was one time my wife wore the same clothes for three days straight and justified it because she had nowhere to be. Because of this my mom was always on the verge of a nervous breakdown and actually … Of course I (and many others who I have talked with) get tired of being a mom and a wife. I’m writing this post because I believe there is a silent group of women out there who want more than anything to pivot from their stay at home role. My father was an acoholic that use to be verbally, mentally, and emotionally abusive to my mom. I'm tired of taking care of everyone's emotional needs. Of always being there for them, emotionally and physically. ... to save your marriage, then you're really just taking a gamble that what you think might work is going to work. I’m using the term to draw a parallel to parenting.. True as that may be, it's not uncommon for a husband to feel like he's become his wife's last priority. That’s why you’re a tired mom… Normally, the term “hyper vigilance” is used in clinical settings. My wife returned one day from a PTA meeting amazed with the number of mothers who were either divorced, separated, re-married or in any sense not in their original marriage. Mine are now teens and I love my life, but when they were small it was 24/7 non stop WORK. It is especially hard when the kids are young. She’s an amazing mom, but I’m beginning to wonder if she’s dealing with depression. Jesus came to earth as a servant, but He didn’t cease being the Son of God. In this post. I'm tired of doing everything for everyone, and being treated like it is insignificant, or not a big deal. You do not need to apologize for feeling this way. Ok before you go off on me about being a bad parent read first. Being that much of a loner, even if you have kids, isn’t normal.” 5 We Have An Image To Maintain They may be tired of being a stay at home mom. ... A husband is to leave his father and mother and to cleave unto his wife. But they are too afraid, too ashamed or too worried about what people will think to speak that. Likewise, a wife is to leave her parents and focus on her husband. I'm tired of being a mom and wife. I grew up in HUGE family and was the oldest of 7 kids. So, for parents, hyper-vigilance is basically being in a heightened state of awareness, fight-or-flight and protection mode on behalf of our children who are too young to do it for themselves properly, if at all. My problem is that I feel lonelier being … Same to use kids but add in VERY HARSH "discipline". Tired Of My Wife: Tired Of Being Married To Her. Not exactly a happy family. But maybe that is the secret.